Dude, fluffycom is a free website. Children is already among us. If they want to be here and consume the content of any sort, they do it. There’s no reason for registration and age indicating. Koferka issimply turned out to be the most naive of them to indicate her real age but she was doing nothing bad. Anyway… You did a great job and did nothing wrong. The rules has to be observed, isn’t it?
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Real fuckin sus of you to be okay with kids (13 year olds no less) seeing any of the shit on this forum.
Disregarding that, though, you do realize youre saying the mods here’s solution to problems should be… to ignore the problems… right?
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Don’t put that meaning in my words that you want to see. I’m not ok about kids at this forum. It’s just seems less-effective when you banned the one who revealed the age and the hundreds of others is still around and didn’t show up to be banned. It’s just big problem of any not-allowed to children website, nothing more.
No children are allowed. We can’t catch them all but the ones we do get banned. You can’t catch every criminal, does that mean we should get rid of the police? Fucktard
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I repeat… You did a great job. My congratulations. Now you can get your cookies and a glass of milk as a reward and do something else for Fluffycom. I’m sure there is a lot of work to do. 
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I’m 24 years old, pal. If it were otherwise, I wouldn’t show up and you wouldn’t be talking to me. What? I should send a photo of myself with bottle of wine and cigarettes that I bought yesterday to prove it? I wouldn’t surprise if so.
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I didn’t… accuse you of being a kid. I accused you of backpedaling.
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Oh… Thx for clarify this.
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Well, let’s try to put this conversation to the end, ok? Minors at adults forum is a problem, ok? We can discuss this problem from different sides, but it will remain. No matter of an admin and moderators’ efforts. There’s no an effective tool to get them all off.
And now try to get my position right. We’re banning some of kids who tried to make some contribution into community development but a bunch of them to stay among us undisclosed in any case.
We’re solving the problem without solving the problem. And I think your example with the police and crime is not entirely correct. 'Cause criminals makes harm in contrast to our young members who didn’t understand where they had ended up.
There is no place for children on such a cruel site and it has meaning to ban them if you to prevent to prevent parents’ anger who don’t like that their kiddo spend time at forum like Fluffycom. I just want to say that the problem is much more multifaceted than it seems at first glance.
You know, I wish I had someone like Za at forums I used to visit when I was a teen. I was exposed to the shit I wish I never saw at this young age. Usually people do not realise how harmful the content may be until they are at their mid-20ies. Personally I hear a lot of regrets from my late-20ies and early 30-ies friends. I have such regrets myself.
Kids can’t understand the influence this kind of content may have in the future, so it’s adults responsibility to not let them in when it’s possible. Of course, we can’t remove every single minor from every single place they shouldn’t visit. But it doesn’t mean we should keep allowing minors to traumatise themselves unconsciously.
It’s not about this small artist doing things right or wrong. It’s about them being exposed to things they shouldn’t see being 13 years old, because this may traumatise them. They reacted very emotionally to all abuse-ish comments they got during their time here. And that was the moment when I realised that they might be a minor. I was right.
I have the same feeling about AisatsanA, truth to be told. But time will tell and I am pretty sure that they will lay low seeing that their friend got banned.
Nobody is playing “holier than thou” card here. Banning minors from adult pages = caring about them. Even if they do not understand it now.
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Another example of why 18-19 year old teens shouldn’t be legally considered adults anywhere and why sites like ours shouldn’t allow them regardless of archaic laws.
If 17-year-olds aren’t allowed, 18-year-olds and 19-year-olds shouldn’t be allowed either because they’re all in the same age group. I treat all three ages like the teenagers they are, which is how they should be treated.
Treating 18-19 year old kids like adults is the opposite of caring about them, and it’s a damn shame that most places haven’t wisened up to this.