I got a question here about Bitch Mare Syndrome.
What is the best treatment for a mare with Bitch Mare Syndrome?
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Partial lobotomy
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Perhaps
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Better ,total lobotomy ,only lunges and heart functions
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Pillowing
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I was thinking of neutering
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Now letâs go with the belief that BMS can actually be cured, ideally you want to use a carrot and stick method. Whenever mum does something good, she gets the carrot, whenever she does something bad, she gets the stick.
The problem becomes the balancing act, eventually youâre going to need better and better carrots to keep the dopamine rushes going and simultaneously need bigger and bigger sticks to keep the fear in line.
Which is why Iâd recommend starting with shitty carrots and massive sticks, absolutely traumatise mum for every little transgression to the point where any little piece of praise will be golden to her.
Eventually the fear of God and a half-hearted âGood jobâ will be enough to keep her going for days.
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Depends on what the trigger is and headcanon.
Some headcanons have the mareâs neurology plasticise once BMS tiggers, so BMS is hardlocked in and thereâs no coming back. A lobotomy to reduce the mareâs capacity, milkbagging (so you can still get some use out of her to feed her litter) or ECT to reset the neural pathways (which is headcanon dependent) are the only solutions that I can see.
Other mares develop BMS due to their owners spoiling them or position in the herd hierarchy causing them to be spoilt, so theyâre effectively fluffy Karens. Assuming the aforementioned plasticisation isnât in effect, then normal discipline is the best option - teaching the fluffy that sheâs not special, all babbehs are good babbehs, etc.
The final trigger is how the mare views babbehs - if sheâs too emotionally immature and just views babbehs as cute toys rather than actual children, then stop her breeding and put her on training until sheâs mature enough (again depends on if her mental state is correctable). If she exhibits bad behaviour during this, then disciplining is required - ideally this should be non-permanent assuming the attitude is correctable.
One discipline option would be to kill or take away her bestest or all her babbehs, every time she kills or mistreats a babbeh. If sheâs just mistreating them, then just taking away all her children for a period is suitable - if sheâs killed a lower babbeh instead, then kill bestest in front of her and take them all away permanently, emphasising that sheâs a bad mummah who doesnât deserve any babbehs.
Repeat the process with every litter until she gets the message.
@BFM101 Dude, youâve just described every traditional Far East Asian household.
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either lobotomy or a taser to the vagina
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Really? Shit I thought I was describing my mother.
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I suspect thereâs significant overlap in types of borderline abusive childhood environments.
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Extreme violence
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Stitched up âspecial placeâ, wooden log right up the ass and being made as a litterpal for a sensitive baby fluffy.
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I like the way you think. How would you dissuade the mare from having a favorite?
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Whichever one is her favourite, take it away for a few days until mum has forgotten about them. And for every time she ask âWhewe am bestesh babbeh?â, add another day to the time-out. This may take some time depending on how ingrained the favourtism is but Fluffies will eventually be distracted by something else.
If mum never relents, she never sees her kid again.
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Convert fluffy to This
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Itâs better to prevent it: in some HCs, they develop it by being bred too soon, and a way to revert it as quickly as possible is either forcing miscarriage or taking the babies away.
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Use gun.
And if that doesnât work use more gun.
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try tongue but hole
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Is that a TF2 reference?
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