Alright, im going to make this statement without much tact, as i don’t really think my point can be made while doing so.
Firstly, moderation here is extremely caught up on labels, it seems as if there is no action that can be taken without making it a site wide change. You are moderators you are here to moderate, stop making every problem some huge show that has to include the whole community and has to have giant implications. Talk amogst yourselves as a mod team, figure out the issue, and deal with it. Not everything has to be made a huge ruling decision. Make some decisions on your own. If someone is continously abusing a person in chat over the course of multiple days, dont sit on your hands and go “oh but maybe someone would get upset if i did something”, use your judgement as an administrator and deal with it.
As far as this particular issue goes, there is already a solution that no one uses due to a culture being built around its use, no one uses the report function because it’s become synonymous with being whiney. Lets start using the damn system that’s in place, to help the moderators make these decisions. If you see something that you think crosses the line in some way, report it. Put a little note that says “probably too far” in the report, if several people report it, and they are reliable members of the community, then moderation has a metric to work of off instead of trying to mind read or create huge surveys to try and make everyone happy.
On the opposite side of this, while I am asking for moderators to make moves on their own, they also need to calm their tits. One of the absolute worst things you can do for a microcommunity is institute tons of huge sweeping changes in a short amount of time. Im not going to debate the anthro-nonfluff issues, but having so many huge changes in a short amount of time sows discontent. Give people some recovery time to go “oh okay, this has changed, a new status quo is building” and then implement a new change.
Overall I have been extremely unhappy with the moderation of the site in the last few months. It feels like the moderation is both extremely weak willed and quick to act at the same time depending on the issue at hand.
This is less about the issue at hand and more a dump of my frustrations. This is a great community, and while there are certainly some bad eggs, pretty much everyone here is a good person at heart, but mob rule is not the way to go. Taking community input is not a bad thing but out of the ~1000 people who view posts regularly, only about ~30 will comment here. Thats 0.03%. You will not get an accurate representation of community sentiment with that. It is your job and responsibilty as administration to deal with these issues, and if you see a fellow moderator abusing systems or making bad calls, dont pussy foot around it, call it out. Leadership is what is needed at this time, and not one person or one viewpoint, but a functioning team.
Huge fucking rant and I’m sure I already regret some things that I put here, and almost certaintly will piss some people off but its what came out of brain when I thought of this issue.