I find if you have opinions that clash with the piece and creator’s usual style? Maybe just comment on the art or execution. It works well for me. Mind you: I’m a hug boxer that does take in abuse and other things. So I’ve commented on how well the creator pulls on my heart strings or how effective their story telling is, etc.
And the Roach Queen comic I talked about: A fluffy isn't worth anything until it knows it's worth nothing. -- RQ
There are some folks I will joke around with, but I think that’s due to mutual understanding and appreciation of work. I’m looking forward to @OtherCoraline ripping out my heart later on, for instance. Or @Bad_Roomie doing something that’s insanely cute while equally horrible. Maybe @RQ dragging me through some experience in hope I get to see tummy rubs. Or the emotional roller coaster that is @artist-kun.